Gail Silver, Author
Christiane Kromer, Illustrator
Plum Blossom Books, Fiction 2009
Suitable for Ages: 4-7
Themes: Handling Anger, Grandfathers, Mindfulness
Opening: Anh was in the living room building a tower, the tallest tower he’d ever built. His grandfather was in the kitchen making dinner. “Anh” Grandfather called out. “Dinner is ready.”
Synopsis: Anh is building a block tower when his grandfather calls him for dinner. He wants to keep playing — just one more block. Anh erupts into anger and knocks down his tower. When he says hurtful things, his grandfather tells Anh to go to his room and sit with his anger. In his bedroom, Anh meets his anger in the form of a hairy, red creature. They talk, howl, spin in circles and beat the ground with their hands. Anh is so exhausted he’s ready sit and be still with his anger.
Why I like this book: Gail Silver has written an enchanting book for both children, parents and teachers. It is based on the teachings about mindfulness and Buddhism by Thich Nhat Hanh. It encourages parents to stay calm and caring when their child has a melt down. It helps children find ways of handling their own anger in a safe place. This is an excellent book to teach children coping skills that they can use throughout their lives. Christiane’s beautiful and lively Asian illustrations are mixed-media artwork that include paper and silk collages with realistic brush and pencil drawings. You can visit Gail Silver and Christiane Kromer at their websites.
Resources: Encourage children to draw pictures about what their anger looks like. Then ask them to draw a picture of what their anger look like when they calm down?
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I can’t wait to read this, Pat. What a great find.
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Thanks Catherine. I loved it too! Outsanding book for parents and kids.
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Sounds great to do a gestalt with the anger. I am also tackling helping children with their emotions in a new DrNanaPlum series ~ similar message ~ different perspective. I think all these perspectives help parents and children learn about emotions # expressing them and controlling them! Great stuff Patricia.
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Thank you Niamh. I agree, there are many books that help children deal with emotions. Finding the one that fits your child is key. Look forward to your books.
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I am very interested int his one. I think my son would agree I could use more mindfulness when I drive – not an angry driver, but impatient!
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Guess, it is for big kids too. It is a good idea to learn to sit with our anger before we act. Parents may benefit as well!
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Pat – This is one of our absolute all-time favorite books and is one of two go-to books we recommend when someone asks about dealing with anger. The beautiful idea of accepting your anger as a normal part of who you are, and learning to be with it, sit with it, even dance with it, is such a powerful and healthy way of looking at a human emotion we all share. One of the most touching things that has happened several times in our shop has been having an adult discover Anh’s Anger and Hot Stuff to Help Kids Chill Out and when asked, is this for a special child in your life, getting the answer “No. This is for me.”
We’ve got a free resource page on anger management that I’m hoping it is OK to share here.
http://www.reachandteach.com/content/article.php?story=20090427131824839
Thank you for lifting this book up. It is a gem.
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Craig, thank you for recommending this book to me months ago. Sure, it’s fine to add your link for anger management. I searched your website looking for a way to link but only found your review. Great resource. I loved this book as it fits in with my own way of handling things. Love the Zen approach. Thanks for sharing.
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Ooh, a book about tantrums and meltdowns and big feelings … this sounds vital right about now.
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Alicia, it is a great book– even for parents. Glad you like it.
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Great choice. I love the idea of drawing a picture of what your anger looks like. Smart.
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Genevieve — come from experience. I used this with my daughter, and even did it myself. Great for discussion.
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This sounds like a great book. Every child has those meltdowns. How great to have this book as a tool to teach them how to deal with those raging feelings.
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Ruth, you’d especially enjoy this book. It has a Zen feel to it. Yes, there is anger in it, but it is dealt with quietyly — very eastern.
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What beautiful illustrations! Picturing children’s anger as a big red monster is a genius idea. I’m eager to find this one. Thank-you.
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Yes, I loved the illustrations. They really capture the story.
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Pat…I love this book. What a wonderful concept and how helpful to encourage kids to draw their anger. We all get angry…and need to learn to observe it and channel it positively. I’ve shared this on Facebook…it’s a terrific choice for Perfect Picture Book Friday!
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Vivian, you would appreciate this book. I had to buy this one. Thanks for sharing on FB.
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Anh’s Anger (in the book) looks like it was drawn by a young kid while Anh is drawn realistically. I like the message of this book! That is an interesting way of illustrating the anger.
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Yes, it is a great way of visualizing what your anger looks like and facing it head on. Great book!
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Oh Wow! This sounds like an excellent book. I’ll have to check it out! Thanks!
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Rhythm, it is an excellent book. Wonderful way to teach kids about dealing with their anger.
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And I work with some kids who could use this book!
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I’m sure you meet a lot of kids with anger issues.
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indeed I do! When I was in the library at school everyday teachers would send kids to me who were having meltdowns in class. They would come sit in a corner with me and sometimes tell me about it all or sometimes not. But I could usually get them laughing and feeling better so they could go back to class and have a better day.
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A very important job Rhythym. Kids will talk to you over adults and share their feelings.
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