Home for A While
Lauren H. Kerstein, Author
Natalia Moore, Illustrator
Magination Press, Fiction, Feb. 2, 2021
Suitable for ages: 4-8
Themes: Foster children, Belonging, Home, Emotions, Behavior, Trust
Opening: “Calvin clunked his suitcase up the steps of another house. THIS isn’t your home, his thoughts shouted. Nobody wants you, his feelings rumbled.”
Book Jacket Synopsis:
Calvin has lived in a lot of places, but he still hasn’t found his home. He’s afraid to offer his heart if he’s just going to move again anyway.
When he moves in with Maggie, she shows him respect, offers him kindness, helps him manage his emotions, and makes him see things in himself that he’s never noticed before. Maybe this isn’t just another house. Maybe this is a place Calvin can call home, for a while.
Why I like this book:
Home for a While is a sensitive book for foster parents to add to their book shelves. Foster kids need to see themselves in stories that may help them transition into a new home. It is scary time for children and they deal with BIG emotions. It’s not unusual for kids to want to protect themselves from disappointment, hurt and feeling let down. And like any child they act out and test their new foster parents.
Lauren Kerstein presents these challenges in a open and honest manner. Her story is full of heart and compassion. She alternates the dialogue between Calvin (red ink) and Maggie (purple ink), his new foster mom. When Maggie asks Calvin if she can give him a goodnight hug, he responds with a “NAH.” But follows with “Why do you want to hug me, anyway?” This banter is repeated throughout the book. Maggie is a calm and stable foster mom and her responses and strategies open the door for Calvin to trust her. Actually this book is a moving read for any family and offers all parents some tips.
Natalia Moore’s illustrations are colorful and lively. She beautifully captures the interactions between Calvin and Maggie. Just look at that cover! And she incorporates loud, noisy words into her artwork, which children will enjoy.
Note: This book spoke to me because I have friends who had a daughter, but wanted more children. They decided to become foster parents. Their first foster child was a little girl. Just as they were proceeding to adopt her, they were surprised to learn the birth mother had twin boys. Not wanting to break up the siblings, they said “yes.” A few years later another sibling joined the family. They adopted all four siblings and their dream family is growing and thriving.
Resources: Make sure you read The Author’s Note, which provides important information about children in foster care or in temporary care with other family members. There is valuable information on helping children deal with emotions.
Lauren Kerstein, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker who specializes in working with children, adolescents, adults, and families. She is the author of Rosie the Dragon and Charlie picture book series and writes books for young adults. She has authored a textbook about Autism Spectrum Disorders. She lives in Englewood, CO. Visit Kerstein at her website, and on Facebook @Laurenkersteinauthor and Twitter @LaurenKerstein.
Every Friday, authors and KidLit bloggers post a favorite picture book. To see a complete listing of all the Perfect Picture Books (PPB) with resources, please visit author Susanna Leonard Hill’s website.
*Review copy provided by Magination Press in exchange for a review.
I worked with youth-at-risk and many had been through the foster care system. Some of their stories were heartbreaking. One girl had been in over 20 foster homes, some good and some not so good. I agree, this book should be in every foster home as well as regular homes.
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Some foster homes are much better than others. The more homes a child ends up in, the more difficult it is for the child. I was impressed with this book!
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Pat, I’m so glad you reviewed this book. I LOVE this book. I’m sure it will help many children who are unfortunately stuck navigating the foster care syst.
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I loved this book as soon as I read it — so well written. It would be helpful for kids in foster care to see themselves in this story!
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The book looks amazing and your friend’s story as well! Big hearts heal!
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Thank you! I love the dialogue format coupled with expressive illustrations!
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Thanks for adding my review to your Foster Care book list.
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Such an important story. Congratulations, Lauren!
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It is so important for kids to see themselves in stories and I’d think this book would be helpful to foster kids.
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I loved your heartwarming note about the family who adopted four kids. There are so many foster children in my part of the country and this book would be a plus in their often upturned lives.
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Yes, her story is fascinating. And, I thought of her as I read the book. The first daughter is now in middle school, with the younger children following.
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Such a tough life for foster kids, not having any choice in their lives. And the family you describe is amazing! such huge hearts.
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I can’t imagine the fear, anxiety and anger of being moved around. It would be so hard to trust and bond with a family. That’s why this story is so important.
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This book look like an amazing resource; we had foster children in our home when I was growing up. Coolest thing happened last month: One of our foster brothers, now aged 68, showed up at my Dad’s house, to thank him for his mentorship and love. My Dad cried as he told me what that homecoming meant to him after a half-a-century. We need more books like this one; thank you, Pat, for showcasing it.
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What a fascinating story. And, it must have really moved your father. It is a perfect resource for all families.
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Wow! What a powerful & important new picture book. I agree that this is one that should be in all homes.
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Thank you! It does belong in all homes because of the creative approach of the foster mother. A lot of advice for parents would welcome — foster or not.
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Such an important topic that needs more attention
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Yes, I agree. I loved this picture book!
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Patricia, what a great review of an important and touching book. I am so glad your friend opened her home and family to the kids. Sounds like it could be useful to every parent. I look forward to reading it. Thanks!
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Thank you Maria! I love the dialogue between the foster child and his foster mom — she really gives him space and ask her questions. Beautiful illustrations, too!
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Again, you share another much-needed book – as well as personal stories that help show why we need these books for kids (and parents, too). Thanks
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Thank you for your kind comments. I love to find books like this to help families through challenging times.
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This sounds like a valuable and much-needed book, Pat! Thank so much for sharing it with us!
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Thanks, Susanna! It is a much-need story, especially with how the author approached the subject!
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This sounds wonderful, Patricia. It’s so important to get those hard-to-discuss feelings out in the open and just right. Seems like Lauren H. Kerstein has achieved that.
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It’s the first picture book I’ve read that speaks to foster children and gives them a a voice. The dialogue between the foster mother and the foster child was perfect!
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How wonderful it will be for many to read.
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This is a beautiful and moving story. I hope to find it here. I love the cover. Love your choice Pat.
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This book really stands out as a must have in foster homes — or in any home. Love the dialogue between the foster mother and child.
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