Margot Theis Raven, Author
Mike Benny, Illustrator
Sleeping Bear Press, Fiction, 2005
Suitable for Ages: 5-10
Themes: Veterans Day, Remembering our fallen soldiers, Symbolism
Synopsis: It is Veterans Day and Katie’s mother has invited her Uncle John for dinner. She explains to Katie and her two sisters that they will be setting a separate little table, just like the ones that will be set in Air Force, Army, Marine Corps and Navy dining halls across America to honor the men and women who have served their country. Mama gets out a white table-cloth, a single empty chair, a white plate, silver ware, a black napkin, an overturned glass, a white candle and a red rose in a vase tied with a red ribbon. She explains the significance of each item on the table, and what it will mean to Uncle John.
Much to Katie and her sister’s surprise, they learn a special story about their favorite uncle from their mother. Uncle John was on a rescue mission in Vietnam when his helicopter was shot down over enemy territory. He was taken as a Prisoner of War (POW). Uncle John found an opportunity to escape and carried his wounded friend on his back to safety. He was a hero.
Katie and her sisters are in awe when they hear the story. Katie stares at the little white table and feels there is something missing. The girls come up with a special idea and surprise their uncle at dinner. Uncle John is moved beyond words by their loving gesture.
Why I like this book: Once again I am sharing a book I reviewed several years ago before I had following. This is an outstanding book that will touch the hearts of young and old alike. It is a time to remember and honor those who are not with us. I was delighted to find a book about this very simple, but deeply meaningful tradition observed by service members for over 35 years. Few civilians are familiar with the symbolism. It seemed the perfect book to share again on Veterans Day. Raven tells a moving story, and at the end provides a detailed history of the origin of the White Table and how it became a symbol of caring for our MIA and POW service members after the Vietnam War. Benny’s subdued pastel paintings add to the mood of the solemn occasion that transcends generations.
Resource: Click here to lean how to set America’s White Table. Also visit Margot Theis Raven at her website.
This is a beautiful book. Thanks for sharing it again today.
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Yes, it is a beautiful book and an important one for children to understand a little history about this observance.
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I remember learning about this tradition for the first time from your first review. It’s such a moving story and ritual. Thanks for sharing and reminding us.
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It has been a couple of years, so I thought I’d share it again after I saw my stats over the weekend and saw 101 people had searched for the review on my site. This ritual is observed on Veteran’s Day, but also at formal military/community dinners held on bases. Always a solemn moment.
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It does sound like a good book. Will have to tell my sister about it for my niece and nephew. Thanks for the info and review!
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Karen, I am happy you enjoyed the book review and the sacred ceremony being observed nationwide.
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Like Joanna, I first learned of this tradition from your earlier review. This is a beautiful and gentle story, just right for young children. Thanks, Pat.
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Thanks for commenting. I felt it worth repeating.
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What a cool idea to do with kids.
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Yes, I think so too. I should have shared it earlier.
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I’ve never heard of this tradition. I like traditions and this sounds like a lovely one. I guess I need to find the book and learn what all those things mean. Thanks for sharing this one Ms Tilton. Truly something new and interesting.
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Well Rhythm, I’m glad you learned about this tradition on my website. I worked for the AF, so I was very familiar with the tradition and delighted to find a book for kids. Great activity to use with children.
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I’ve put the book on my wish list. Thanks Ms Tilton!
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What a wonderful book. I like the cover a lot. My mom explained what the table meant. It is sad but very nice.
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Erik, this observation started after the Vietnam War. I shared it again, because I knew a lot of people hadn’t seen it when I ran it several years ago. Barbara Gruener celebrates it with her first grade team. It’s a lovely rememberance. And, I worked for the AF, so I am very familiar with the white table.
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I was at a program to honor Veterans at the school where five of my grandchildren attend. The 3rd grade performed a skit as their teacher read the book about the American White Table. She could barely get through it. It was a very good program.
I hve never heard about it before. I am a Veteran from the Vietnam war. That was the best Veterans program I have been to in many years.
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Bill, thank you for visiting my blog and leaving a comment. I’m not surprised you didn’t know about the White Table. My brother was a Vietnam vet and I doubt he knows. The military began the ceremony after the war. I worked for the AF, so I was very familiar with the custom as we used it at big base/community dinners. And, of course it is honored in the mess hall. It is a moving ceremony. I’m so glad there is a book for children.
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Janie, thanks for sharing my review on your blog.– Pat
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