Armond Goes to a Party: A Book about Asperger’s and Friendship
Nancy Carlson, Author and Illustrator, and her friend Armond Isaak
Free Spirit Publishing, Fiction, Apr. 15, 2014
Suitable for Ages: 5-9
Themes: Asperger’ syndrome, Autism Spectrum, Friendship, Socialization, Coping
Opening: “You can read any time,” his mom said. “But parties make me nervous,” Armond said. “What if balloons pop?” “And parties are disorganized. I don’t like when things are disorganized.”
Synopsis: Armond has been invited to his best friend Felicia’s birthday party. Instead of being excited, Armond is anxious and worried. He recites all the reasons about why he shouldn’t go. The party may be too noisy. He may feel invisible and lonely. And, he always plays basketball every Saturday. Armond’s mother reminds him that Felicia will feel sad if he doesn’t attend. After all, Felicia is his best friend, doesn’t care that he has Asperger’s, and talks all the time about dinosaurs. Armond decides to attend the party. With the support of Felicia and her mother, he is able to make it through the party and have fun.
Why I like this book: This is a realistic and humorous portrayal of what it’s like for a child with Asperger’s to socialize with other children. The story is inspired by Armond Isaak, who participated in Nancy Carlson’s writing classes when he was seven years old. The author was inspired by Armond’s stories about his life with Asperger’s syndrome. When he approached her a few years later to help him turn his stories into a book, she agreed. The book is about learning how to cope in situations where you are uncomfortable, learning to be a better friend and realizing your aren’t alone. Nancy Carlson’s illustrations are vivid, colorful, emotive and include diversity. Armond’s facial expressions are priceless. This is an excellent book that offers helpful coping advice to children on the autism spectrum and for those who care about them. This is an ideal book for classrooms.
Nancy Carlson is an accomplished children’s book author and illustrator who has published 65 children’s books.
Armond Isaak is now 14 years old and in middle school. Besides reading books, he loves Legos, acting, and playing the trumpet. He is also a proud Boy Scout.
Resources: There is a note for parents and teachers at the end of the book with suggestions about helping children make friends, learn social skills, and encourage empathy. Armond shares his thoughts about living with Asperger’s syndrome with the hopes it will help other kids. You may want to visit Nancy Carlson’s website for more information and a video of Nancy and Armond being interviewed on television.
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I love the organic way the story came about. Fascinating. Definitely a wonderful classroom book.
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Yes, I agree Genevieve. I love that he approached the author to help him tell his story. He wants to be an author.
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What a wonderful book! And so sweet that Armond is listed as co-author and friend.
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It is a great story that all kids can resonate with. I love to see kids on the autism spectrum pursue their special talents.
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You have high-lighted another great resource book, Pat. All kids should have a book that reflects and validates their feelings.
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Yes, I think this book has a universal one that many kids can identify with. It does validate their feelings.
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This sound alike a wonderfully collaborative effort. I love Armond’s facial expression on the cover.
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I really liked that she worked with Armond to tell his story. He wants to be an author.
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Oh, I can so sympathize with Armond. I have an anxious child, and birthday parties were often overpowering. We are lucky that he has outgrown some anxieties, especially those related to birthday parties.
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A lot of kids are anxious about birthday parties. I think this book has universal appeal. Thanks for sharing, Kristen.
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It’s good for children to be exposed to others who have issues (health and otherwise) and are unlike themselves. This book looks like a good option for helping children understand and sympathize with them.
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Thanks for your comments. Armond wanted to help kids understand how hard socialization is for kids with Asperger’s and how they can be better friends.
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I’m glad to see a book featuring a main character with .Asperger’s. It’s important for other children to understand them better. This book could be the basis of a good family discussion.
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Yes, especially since it is based on Armond’s real-life experiences. Thanks for the tweet.
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I know a lot of parents looking for books like this. Thanks for sharing this one.
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That’s great. I hope you pass this gem along.
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You always have such great books, Pat, and this one is no exception. It looks like a book that would be equally valuable for kids who are on the spectrum and need to know they’re not alone and for kids who aren’t on the spectrum so that they can understand a little better what their friends might be going through. Thanks so much for sharing this one!
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Thank you for your comments. Glad you liked my selection. I also think it is a universal book, because a lot of kids deal with anxiety over social outings.
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Sounds like another wonderful book for all kids to increase understanding of what it’s like for a child with Asperger’s to be in a social situation. Thanks, Pat!
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Thank you Penny. Armond wanted kids to understand how hard it is for kids with Aspergers to socialize and how they can become better friends.
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Oh! What a great book! I have many friends who happen to be on that autism spectrum. A young man with autism illustrated my book! This book has a sweet back story as well as the book story. Thanks for sharing Ms Tilton!
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Rhythm, this is a great book for you to share in schools. It may be in the library because it was released last spring.
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Patricia – this sounds WONDERFUL. My son is on the spectrum, and a year younger than the inspiration for this book. I may just have him read it – after I do, of course! Thanks for sharing!
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You will both love the book and have many great discussions. You made my day!
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This sounds great! Armond reminds me of a certain book-loving fellow I know *cough cough* who also happens to have a friend named Felicia *coughety cough cough* 😉
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Oh yes, and this particular fellow wrote a wonderful story called Tomatoe and Pea, which has a heavy bullying theme that is resolved at the end! Should have made that connection. Cough! Cough! 🙂
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What a great story behind the story.
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Yes, I love the story about how Armond met the author and later asked her to help him write his story. Makes it real!
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Wow, that is a great topic for a children’s book! I will be looking into Nancy a bit more, and check out her other books.
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I am so happy you enjoyed my review of Armond. It is quite a story. Thank you for visiting me.
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